Dating is Part of Family Life

Flirting with girls is fun. But it doesn’t have to be mysterious. Here are three main ways to flirt wtih women.

You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.

Another approach is to respond to them. You wait for them to do something that you have a response prepared for.

You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your preselected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.

Here are some examples of each:

ACTIVE FLIRTING: This is the most direct method. You simply take the initiative and do something flirtatious. For instance, you could bump into her, or give her a certain look, or play with innuendos. You take a chance when you’re direct, though. If your flirting is cheesy, it can come off as canned. But if she’s in the right frame of mind it can show an attractive kind of confidence.

TRIGGERED FLIRTING: Triggered flirting can be even better than proactive flirting, because it appears more spontaneous and less planned. For instance, suppose she brags about herself. You could say, “That’s impressive. You’ve just earned 5 more minutes with me.” Reactive flirting can signal that you’re quick witted and ingelligent. And, of course, it doesn’t actually have to be spontaneous. You might have dozens of responses ready for common things girls say or do. It just has to look spontaneous to be effective.

SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don’t want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like “so, what makes you so special?” Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.

So those are three ways to flirt. Did you find them interesting? All three methods are discussed in much more detail in the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.