Dating is Part of Family Life

Have you ever noticed that most Internet profiles start with “I am” or “I want?” And although you’re the one looking for true love, your profile shouldn’t be only about you.

“Dating Online is not about you, it’s about the other person you’re wanting to attract to you. This is also known as Compound Interest. For a change try to ‘Pay it Forward’ and watch what happens,” Chaszey says.

“What do I have to pay forward?” you may wonder.

Think about it. There are more than 10 million daters registered with Internet Dating sites paying over $2 billion dollars per year in the hopes of finding true love. If everyone is looking for just that one person, the likelihood that we spend most of our time rejecting others and being rejected ourselves is a given. In other words, once your sizzling profile is public, all you can focus on is weeding through the hundreds or even thousands of men and women that flood towards you.

Until your true love has found you, try earning some karma browny points by responding to those you’re not interested in with grace. Because that most likely what you’ll spend most of your time with when you embark on the wild world of Online Dating.

“We all have heard the saying that ‘what goes out comes back tenfold.’ What we tend to forget is that no one should have to earn our kindness and our respect. Everyone deserves these gifts from us for the simplest fact that we share in the same sun light, the same water, the same air, and we all walk pretty similar paths to one another, a journey called life. We have to recognize and never forget that we all are looking for the same thing: Unconditional love,” says Chaszey.

You have to show willingness and devote some time to learn how to send graceful rejection e-mails to your potential suiters. They should show effort, be filled with grace and let the other person feel your kindness. “Don’t ever forget that the other person has feelings too and that the kindness of your words may just heal a broken heart. Mostly your tender e-mail will bring you karma points that will multiply through the concept of compound interest, and life will take on a whole new meaning for you. Tough to explain, but so worth the effort.”

Karma points always add or subtract from our character, and we want to create a stronger and kinder new you, that will attract the person you deserve.

Next time you hit that pre-set “no thank you” button, take some time and study their profile for a few minutes and respond accordingly, filled with your kind thoughts and your best wishes for a fellow being on a similar journey as yours.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.