Dating is Part of Family Life

Once you realise that it is time to express your love to your dream guy, you probably feel quite nervous and scared. This was always one of your dreams.

You want the moment you express your love, to be very special and memorable for him. After all, that is what you would have hoped for if and when he declares his love for you. This could well be the cause of some nervousness.

You have to keep in mind though that rarely will it turn out like a hollywood movie. So, remember to relax and have realistic expectations. Your man might not even know how to respond to you.

Can you guess what he is thinking?

Integrity? passion? romance?

You can use the feelings mentioned above to branch off some ideas and take them further in your expression of love for your partner.

Idea No.1

You can be very traditional and go the romantic meal route. If you are a good cook, that will get some brownie points. If not, then do not worry, just order ready made food from a nice restuarant. Do not forget the setting. Make sure it is soft and lit candles, romantic music etc. Through the night, you will know when the timing is right and then just say it and mean it.

Idea no.2

One of the best ways is to think of a place that is special to both of you. All couples have a special place. Usually it is the place they met or the place they frequent the most.

You should arrange a visit to that special place together and take a walk or spend some time together. When you know and feel the timing is right, tell him how much you enjoy his company and that you love him.

Idea no.3

Wait until the end of the next perfect date with your man. Kiss him goodnight. Make sure it is a long, steamy kiss. As you linger, still standing within his arms look at him in the eyes and say I love you.

Fourth idea

Okay, you are not brave enough to say the words straight out, you need a little help. You could try these shy approaches.

Send your guy some flowers. If you think your guy is the type of guy who would appreciate you sending them to his work, do so. He might like the idea of his coworkers seeing how lucky he is. Now attached a handwritten note and say something cute like, just trying to get the guts to say I love you.

Some people feel that gifts are simply too much. You could go even more low key and send an e-card. Pick one from the thousands on the internet, something he would like and also says the words “i love you” on it.

Eventually you are going to have to tell him that you love him. It can be a very freeing experience and could lead to a much brighter relationship.